Who exactly is telling anyone how to feel? And where did I say that what TJ did was OK? I have only stated that I don’t understand the anger (I still don’t), that there is probably more to the story than we know, and encouraged folks to keep it all in perspective. Anyone is free to twist themselves into knots over this if they so choose. I simply choose not to, and I’m inclined to leave it to those directly involved and the forces of supply and demand to sort it all out. Life is short and I’d rather be on my bike.